The novile family (“Nineness”) is like a trine but to the third power
As I first described in Aspects on Steroids, noviles appear to have an ethereal character, but this falls away once one steps outside one’s incarnated reality. Noviles become quite matter-of-fact because their essential characteristic is joy from acceptance of the world as it is, joy from “loving it anyway,” finding the beauty in it. The novile family (“Nineness,” thank you David Hamblin!) is like a trine but to the third power. Unlike quintile and septile people, novile people do not try to change the world; they accept it as it is. And where Threeness—trines—harmonizes with the world subjectively and instinctively, Nineness perceives the diversity of the world, accepts the apparent chaos of it all, and feels love and joy.
As Zorba says, Nineness loves “the whole catastrophe.”
Joy only results when one acts spontaneously from a spirit/soul place. The mind cannot conjure joy. So Nineness acceptance is far from resignation, in case you were wondering. The joy, for me, anyway, results from seeing the pain, beauty, incongruity, immensity of the universe, our incarnated “world,” feeling it according to our values, which cause us to love some things and hate other things. I associate this kind of earthly “love” and “hate” with ego energy because it is vibrant and lacks detachment.
For example, in Life and Death, I shared the surprising joy I had discovered by realizing that I was already dead, that I saw so clearly that time only existed within the incarnated world. I discovered so much freedom from the lack of fear of death. I felt more alive than ever. I associate this kind of ethos with Nineness.
Continue reading “Noviles and Novile Triangle Interpretation”
This has been one of those weeks in which I have been blessed with insights from the ether, so I invite you to join me on this short Neptunian wander through life and death. Some of these insights are so contrary to conventional thinking that they surprise me and may unlock some insights for you, too. Let’s go… Continue reading “Life and Death”
New choices about how we experience hard times
Tonight I am thinking of a friend who is beset by a cocktail of challenging planetary energies that are manifesting in life-defining pressures. His struggle reminds me of some of mine and how I have learned how to dance with these energies more gracefully over the years. Here I will share some of my learnings that I am still learning. Read on for how you can transform your experience with “bad times,” “the blues,” “deep shit”; they have many aliases. Continue reading “Hard Times”
Goals are about destinations, not journeys.
Today I am reflecting on my motivation for “working out” and being active, and I suspect that these reflections may help you rethink how you relate to your body as they have me, so here we go.
Here’s some context: since entering “middle age” several years ago, I have had many conversations and other interactions having to do with people’s motivations and attitudes toward their bodies, and many of these emerged during ethnographic research engagements in which I studied people online. Most of the stereotypes and ideas I encountered are not useful to me because they miss the whole point of what the body is, what its significance is. So let’s follow this and see where it leads. Continue reading “On Physicality and Aging”
I am feeling a profound, long-held irony about faith as I release this liquid born of must that is centuries old. As Chiron is my rising planet, in Pisces, the key part of my wound was my connection to the divine. I also have a very compromised Jupiter placement; hence, crisis of faith is something I brought into this life.
Let’s explore the idea of “faith” a little. I think we can expand our horizons and awareness. I have been reflecting on it with my mind and my higher awareness.
Continue reading “The Horrifying Thing About Faith”
Did you know that pain can diminish you, or add to you, and its effect is totally based on how you experience it?
How do you bear pain?
For me, if I experience pain from an Ego place, I feel anger or self pity (“Fuck you! Why me?”).
If I experience pain from Spirit, I feel gratitude (“Wow, I can feel this pain, but I need not take it personally; what can I learn?”).
In the first case, I feel that pain takes something from me. In the second, it adds to me.
This feels so weird to say, but I experience that pain I experience from a Spirit place is a kind of ecstasy (tears, sobs).
Yes, ‘tis true for me.
Why are sadness, pain, and ecstasy so close to each other?
I imagine it’s because pain comes from Ego, realizing that he really has no consequence, and joy comes from Spirit who rejoices in the wholeness and connection of all.
So, Ego is truly an illusion, a wonderful temporary illusion. So Ego is diminished in pain, but Spirit feels no pain because it is the whole. It knows pain doesn’t really exist.
So, experiencing them both, in stereo, is exquisite.
The smoke of the fireworks has wafted, the corks and empty bottles stowed, and we are poised to embark on a “new” year, according to the Gregorian calendar. Here I’ll offer some simple thoughts that may help you reframe how you approach 2021 and beyond. Continue reading “Small Poignant New Year’s Blessing”
I often use dance as a metaphor to describe 7th house relationships without really thinking about it, and tonight I am thinking about it. Let us dance and follow this music. I am under the influence of Bach, rain pounding the windows, and waves crashing on the beach down below. I think this music will take us into new realizations. Continue reading “May I Have This Dance?”
Uranus is retrograding into its second opposition to my natal Neptune while Venus is also transiting the latter, and this has me thinking about love and relationship in an ethereal way. In case interesting, all these posts start with an idea that I follow: like you, I don’t know where they will lead. Let’s find out! Continue reading “Love and Sex: Loving Man and Woman”
It has never been so clear to me as it is tonight that conflict in intimate relationships indicates that Ego is active. I have learned that Ego need not run my life although he prefers to and is indefatigable. Here’s a very Neptunian riff on what I mean. Continue reading “Love, Ego, and Harmony”